Red Flag or Deal Breaker? is the ultimate modern party game, perfect for breaking the ice or testing how well you truly know your friends. The 'Tinder-style' swipe mechanic is incredibly intuitive—swiping left for a Red Flag, right for 'It's Fine', and up for a total Deal Breaker feels second nature and keeps the game moving at a fast pace.
The scenarios themselves are the real stars here. They range from the hilarious and petty (clapping when the plane lands) to the genuinely outrageous, sparking immediate debates in a group setting. It’s a 'just vibes' app—no tedious logins or forced ads—which is exactly what you want when you’re hanging out. Whether you’re using it for solo introspection on your own dating standards or as a drinking game with friends, the smooth animations and colorful visual feedback make it a polished, high-quality social experience. It’s simple, effective, and endlessly replayable because the conversations it starts are different every time.
Available on: iPhone
Version 3.2.0Fri Sep 12 2025
bug fixes and improvements. enjoy!
gather your friends and debate that fine line between irk and ick with RFDB.
enjoy at bachelorettes, game nights, pre-games, bars, dinners, truly wherever (as our fans tell us).
the game is simple- a trait is presented about a hypothetical romantic partner
example: red flag or dealbreaker? - “they have a waterbed”.
if it annoys you but you can live with it for the sake of the relationship, it’s a red flag
if it bothers you to no end and you can’t fathom having to stomach it, it’s a dealbreaker
there’s no winning or losing, only passionate discussions (read: arguments) in which you uncover how much your friends will tolerate in pursuit of love.
Requires iOS 17.0 or later. Compatible with iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch.gather your friends and debate that fine line between irk and ick with RFDB.
enjoy at bachelorettes, game nights, pre-games, bars, dinners, truly wherever (as our fans tell us).
the game is simple- a trait is presented about a hypothetical romantic partner
example: red flag or dealbreaker? - “they have a waterbed”.
if it annoys you but you can live with it for the sake of the relationship, it’s a red flag
if it bothers you to no end and you can’t fathom having to stomach it, it’s a dealbreaker
there’s no winning or losing, only passionate discussions (read: arguments) in which you uncover how much your friends will tolerate in pursuit of love.






Navigate the wild world of dating with Red Flag or Deal Breaker?, a fun, swipe-based social app. Test your relationship standards by reacting to hilarious and bizarre scenarios—one card at a time. Using intuitive Tinder-style gestures, decide if a behavior is 'Fine,' a 'Red Flag,' or a total 'Deal Breaker.' With over 50 unique scenarios, smooth animations, and no intrusive ads, it’s the perfect companion for spice up a date night, bonding with friends, or just killing time with a laugh.
Intuitive Tinder-style swipe gesture controls
50+ funny, controversial, and outrageous scenarios
No logins or ads for a seamless 'vibes-only' experience
Dynamic visual feedback and smooth card animations
Read the scenario on the card. Swipe Left if you think it's a Red Flag (Red), Right if you think It's Fine (Green), and Up if it's a Deal Breaker (Purple).
The game focuses on rapid-fire decision making. Use the card stack to see upcoming scenarios and discuss your choices with friends to see where you disagree.
The game is designed for 'live' play and doesn't store data, making it privacy-friendly and easy to restart with new groups.